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Okay, if you know me, you know I’m all about the holidays, especially Christmas!! It is imperative for me to make sure that everyone that is dear to me is in the holiday spirit!  I just Loveee it!! Holidays give you a reason to shop more & care less (until your bank statement arrives)!!

Nevertheless, I’m all about treating yourself-you’ve worked all year, buy the SHOES (do it for the culture)!! I’m sure I’ve used the excuse of “it’s Christmas” one too many times in regards to one too many purchases!! People ask, “What is it about the holidays that you love so much?” My answer is simple:

When I think of the holidays I think of relaxation, time off work, *random ugly sweater parties (any excuse to partay!) & quality time with friends and family. Too often we get caught up in the combustion of the materialistic items and find ourselves stressed out!! While in reality it’s not even about that. Don’t get me wrong. I will shop til’ I drop (I’m not a shopaholic, I’m actually helping the economy). However, I’m more so here for creating moments that turn into forever memories.

I’m a mommy to a FABULOUS five year old (Kaylen) that has a personality bigger than herself!! I honestly never saw myself being a mother. & I honestly never thought that I would be saying this… but she is the BEST thing I’ve ever done!! Hands down!

A day in my life consist of being a full-time mother, (shout out to mothers, especially SINGLE mothers) working as a full-time Paralegal & prepping to finesse my way into law school. My mind is constantly on GO, always thinking, always prepping, always scheduling, literally ALWAYS doing something!

For this very reason when holiday season comes I am HAPPY. I am JOYFUL. I am THANKFUL. I am APPRECIATIVE. During the months of January-October we are busy getting our lives together for the better! I look at November (Thanksgiving) & December (Christmas) as a time to relax & catch up on things and people that I may have put off during my “Grind Months”.

 

“GIVE THEM THEIR FLOWERS WHILE THEY’RE STILL ALIVe”

Holiday season is the perfect time to do so! Take time out to appreciate the ones you love, you don’t have to literally give flowers (unless that’s your thing) but words and affection can go a long way.

This holiday season my hope is that we don’t forget the true reason for the season (Isaiah 9:6). That we find bliss within the smallest things. & that we take time out to love our loved ones while they are here.

Happy Holidays! May they be as EXTRAORDINARY as YOU!

 

 

 

 

Xoxo-Ashlen & Kaylen

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Little Loves!

Happy Early Love Day!

I remember, when I was younger, my dad would bring home flower, a card and cash for my mom every Valentine day. Then he would go to his car and come back out with a teddy bear and a rose for me and my older sister. He’ll never understand how much we appreciated it. It made us feel so loved and it’s something i’ll never forget. I don’t even think he understood what that little $7.00 bear did for our self-esteem and self-worth.  His little thoughts of kindness not only showed us how much he loved us, but how a true man was supposed to treat a lady. He never missed a Valentine Day. Now that i’m married, I know that I want my husband to carry on this tradition with our little girl one day.

Now, I know that there are a lot of women and men that never had anyone show them that kind of love or really care about them like that, and I pray that you will meet someone one day who will love you with all their heart. Until then, remember that you have someone who died for you and loves you very much. His greatest gift was His son. You are very much loved.

I decided to do this shoot with some of my favorite little kids. I borrowed my two nieces and my Godchild since I don’t have kids YET (don’t worry dad, they’re coming). I had a lot of fun with these precious little girls and wanted to show them how precious, beautiful and loved they are. If you have a little girl, remember to remind her that she is perfect and loved.

I pray this Valentine day is a good one for you and that no matter where you find yourself, you are content and happy.

Love you all…Mean it!

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XoXo Emma