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Au Revoir: Setting Goals In 2018

Today I plan on drinking coffee, sitting still and setting my goals for 2018…what about you?!”

Hello New Years Eve…the night where everyone either sits and sets their goals for 2018 or turns up and prays that their 2018 will treat them right. Do you know that you are so lucky to see this very day? So many people did not have this opportunity to contemplate their goals for 2018 but here you are…ALIVE AND WELL AND THRIVING (some of y’all said barely thriving…lol).

I don’t know about you but I definitely enjoyed 2017. It started out rough believe me. I ended 2016 in the hospital with an ovary being taken out. I literally rang in 2017 with an operation for ovarian tortion and I thought the rest of my year would be just as bad but I still hoped for the best. I set my goals for 2017 in the hospital bed and just cried my eyes myself to sleep. This year, I’m setting my goals for 2018 in a hotel room in New Orleans with my 13 month old son, my husband and my little sister and I can shout that GOD HAS BEEN GOOD! So, how do you plan on setting your goals for 2018?

Goals for 2018

When I sit down to set my goals for 2018, I try to keep these four rules in mind. They help me to stay focused and keep my goals as realistic as possible. I hope they help you to set your goals in 2018 as well.

  1. BE REALISTIC AND PLAN: Now, I’m not saying don’t set high expectations for yourself, but you know yourself and you know what’s possible and what’s clearly impossible. Set expectations that you can reach. When you set goals that are too unrealistic, you end up giving up on them so stay within reason. Secondly, PLAN, PLAN, PLAN! If you don’t plan for your goals, then they are just pipe dreams. So, when writing down your goals for 2018, make them realistic and write down action plans on how you are going to achieve them.
  2. MAKE A PUBLIC DECLARATION: When I wanted to start my blog, I went on Facebook and I posted that I was going live with my blog on 11.11.15. I couldn’t back out because all these people were expecting me to live up to my word and they kept asking me how the process was going. So, get on a social media platform and write your dreams out for the world to see. Don’t tell them how you’re going to do it, but tell them when and what you plan on doing.
  3. GET A GOAL-BUDDY: Honey, we have friends for everything else we do. When we want to party, we have a friend for that. When we want to lose weight, travel, eat, etc. we have friends for those things too…lol! Life is all about accountability so get a friend that you can share your goals with and that will keep you on task.
  4. PRAY OVER YOUR GOALS: Real talk, none of your goals in 2018 will be as successful as when you put Jesus in the mix. It’s cliche but true, with God all things are possible! So, take that vision, dream, plan, goals for 2018 to the feet of Jesus and ask him to bless it and give you the wisdom, strength and tenacity to finish and finish well.

Well, those are my four-hard rules for setting goals for 2018, and every year to follow. I hope they helped you in some way. I pray that 2018 will be a year where God enlarges your territory and blesses you and everything you touch. I pray Philippians 1:6 “that God, who has begun a good work in your life will complete it until the end“. I can’t wait to hear your stories and testimonies from 2018 and I thank you all for being a part of my journey. I love you guys so much for your support, prayers and love and I pray you continue this journey with Houseofodara into 2018.

Find me on Instagram at Oluwafunmifly or on Facebook at HouseofOdara and again, thank you for being you and for loving me as me! Let’s go into 2018 with pride, love and joy!!!!! #happynewyear

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Magic City Fashion Week

“Sometimes God is working things out for us and we don’t even know it”

A year after moving to Birmingham AL, and getting knocked ALL the way up, I met these two awesome guys named Derek and Daniel. Not only were they designers, but they had this vision for the beautiful city that is now my home.  After going to an event they put together to talk about this new venture they were pursuing, I knew I had to be a part of it.

 

Enter the dream child of these two hardworking men…Magic City Fashion Week . Derek and Daniel’s dream of turning the great city of Birmingham into a mecca for fashion and design is something the we have needed for a long time. They are building a platform for voices that would otherwise not be heard.

 

 

Yesterday, they had an amazing event for fashion bloggers and photographers at Blue Monkey in Birmingham with the fabulous Victoria of Vic Styles as our blogging guru. This beautiful girl sat for two hours and answered every question we threw at her. She was an open book. You know sometimes you meet successful people and they are so closed-mouthed about how they became successful and don’t really want to share their journey with you….Victoria was not like that at all, she was amazing. The ambience was gorgeous, the people friendly and engaging and the knowledge she dropped was priceless. If you live in Birmingham or around Birmingham, come and be a part of this amazing team that we are building.

Magic City Fashion Week will have actual fashion events and shows happening October 24-28, 2017 during classic weekend. If you are an emerging makeup artist, designer, business owner, blogger, fashion lover, etc. please visit the site: Magic City Fashion Week  and sign up for updates.

Like I said, the event last night was eye opening. Victoria talked about site optimization, learning to trust your journey, finding your niche in the city you are in, putting together highlight reels and branding. It was so beautiful to see women encouraging and helping each other achieve their dreams and goals. Our city wins when we all come and grind TOGETHER. 

If you went to the event, comment below about what you gained from it. If you want to be a part of what’s happening click this link and sign up and join the team, you won’t be disappointed.

Be sure to register for the blog and follow me on Bloglovin for updates and on Instagram and Snapchat (emma ford). All emails and inquiries can be sent to funmis1@gmail.com

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